To start off, this has nothing to do with anyone specific, but I have heard some of the things that I am about to say several times in my life, and it kind of cheeses me off when I hear it.
Why is it that females when a relationship doesn't work as wanted, because a male isn't as mature as they wanted always call him a boy, and say I need to find a man. I mean, there could be a reason why you are attracted to boys, it might be because you are a girl, and not a woman.
I think that females have an idea in their brains that when they reach a certain age, they are automatically a woman. I have no idea when that age is. I think it is when they decide they need to get married. They decided immediately how the relationship is going to work and what it is that is going to happen every step of the way. And any deviation from that plan is the guys fault. Why, because they are the one with the plan.
They have seen all three types of Chick flicks, the "Surprise I Am Pretty Now" as well as the "Odd Twist Of Fate" and the "I Don't Need A Man, But I Married one Anyway." In these movies, women do nothing. So, I think that girls believe that a relationship is just going to work, annd they will just have to look pretty as everything works out for the better. The only problem that they might have is that the guy might not have found them yet.
So when they do not feel like the relaitonship is fulfilling, it is obviously due to the fact that they are dating a boy, and not a man.
When I hear this, I want to say, what the heck makes you a woman.
I have always learned that a relationship is two sided. That if it wasn't then it really wasn't a relationship.
Now, I understand that every female has a desire to be needed, and loved and wants to be treated like royalty by the person that they marry. I am not saying that you should not want that, nor do you not deserve it. What I am saying is that if you really want a relationship, and something isn't going well, you can do something. If having a relationship with that person is worth having, and you don't feel emotionally fulfilled, have you yourself let them know in some way that you want that. Now that is the part that has affected me so that is why I am using it as an example. It does not make a person immature if they do not fulfill needs that you are not letting them know you have. If you need something and are not getting it, yet you want a relationship with a person, it is immature to not try and get these needs fulfilled.
So really what I am saying is that girls think they are mature, much like boys might. But girls feel they deserve men, when really they don't know what it takes to have a man, or even a relationship.
Of course now that I have gotten myself in trouble by what I have said, I am ready to take some shots, so fire away.
